Parenting

Mistakes My Parents Made In Parenting

by Daniel Musk · July 15, 2021

Mistakes My Parents Made In Parenting – – If I could impart a little wisdom on a few of the younger parents today, I would remind them, that through all challenges and responsibilities it entails becoming a parent these days, be sure to take the time out normally as you possibly can to just take a look at them

– Even if there not doing anything unusual, just be sure you sneak that peak so you can actually cherish their moments of innocence

– Before their weather beaten by time and life, those toddler years, and elementary school years apparently use much like the blink of an eye

Raising a family is challenging during these economic times and influence from sources away from home are hard to counterbalance. While each parent wants precisely what is great for their children, every child is unique in methods to discipline, teaching and play should be customized to suit the personality and requires of each one child. While every child is different as well as individualized attention, instruction and guidance, there are several principles that affect child rearing whatever your son or daughter’s disposition.

– In our zeal to generate teenagers with higher confidence, the present day approach to parenting and schooling, especially in the younger years, discourages competition and failure

– It is nearly impossible to fail in structured environments like school – where F’s will no longer exist and also have been substituted for “Needs Improvement”

– Whether that is right or wrong, I can’t say

– What I know is that it is not a realistic representation from the real world

– We all know that in the real world – the adult world – where fair is not a requirement and actually, is never experienced, there are “F’s”

– There are real moments where we fail, bomb, lose, get fired

– Kids experience some form of this, however, not the definitive FAILURE

– They may lose a game, they may get poor grades, however, these are gradients of failure

It is not productive to try and explain why you might have set particular rules and boundaries. An effective leader need not reason using their followers. Your job is to say to them what has to happen and follow-up to make sure that it will happen. When necessary, it can be appropriate to enforce consequences whenever a child refused to behave in a manner you have directed. Do not allow the child to function around your original direction. Be prepared for a spike in defiance when the new rules are first established. This does not mean you give up! It will progress.

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ndvmusic.com – 2. Give unconditional love. This is the most effective parenting skill given it shows our kids that people love them no matter how they act or behave. Unconditional love and acceptance no matter behavior shows our children that they are valued for who they are, not for actions or achievements. Misbehavior is generally a cry for attention, and going for what they already want most will extinguish undesirable behavior and quiet any tantrum. If we only show our youngsters that we love them once they behave only then do we are sending the material that they need to earn our acceptance and that our love is based on what they do as opposed to who they really are. If we want to work parents, we have to give unconditional love and acceptance.

Daniel Musk

Hello everyone! My name Daniel Musk. I'm not Elon Musk brother, but I'm just an ordinary man who likes to play music and drawing art. Now, I've been 32 years old, and enjoying to share about art & home family in this blog.